I have been so, so blessed to have many wonderful fathers in my life. So many people don’t have even one, and I have had three.
The first, of course, is my daddy. He loves us so much- more than anything in the world except for my mom and my kids probably. He’s super into them.
He would do and has done anything in the world for us, whether sitting by my bedside in the NICU for a month, being there for us throughout our childhood, working so hard to support us so that my mom could homeschool us, or watching my newborn son for me so I could get some sleep.
Oh, and driving to Rockford to buy tickets to a Josh Groban concert from some guy we met on the internet. (Yup. No way that could go wrong.)
We danced to You Raise Me Up at my wedding, because it reminded me of all of our best times together.
The second is my grandpa. He loved us and taught us so much in the time we had with him, and we will never ever forget any of it.
Well. We could forget the atrocious “halloween costume” that really was just me wearing a unitard and jelly shoes.
(Bonus shot of my almost new house!)
The third is my husband. I was exceptionally lucky, I got to fall in love with my husband as a father. Not everyone gets that experience, and I highly recommend it. Well. I mean, I don’t recommend the whole tragedy thing. That’s just awful. But, I mean, it’s kind of cool to see what kind of person your life partner will be when charged with the care and soul of a tiny little person.
From the minute I saw him cross Squeaks on Holy Thursday, I knew he was a good daddy. And I knew he’d be a good daddy to our children. Whom I wasn’t sure would exist,but still.
And he is. He has continued to be such a wonderful comfort and gift to Squeaks and to me. And to Buddy, our newest baby.
From the day Buddy was born, he knew Buzz’s voice. I remember being kind of mad, because I was the one that pushed him out and was almost dead from the effort. But everytime Daddy talked, his little head would whip around. Eventually I stopped being bitter and started thinking it was cute.
I can’t wait for the rest of our childrens’ lives with him. I know he’ll be amazing.
I hope all the fathers had a wonderful day yesterday, and to the fathers in my life, thank you.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you.